My Adult Thoughts

My childhood relationships are more on friendships. While in my teens, I consider my relationships precious, although it is not that serious. Companionship is given more value than the romantic level at that time. When I reached 18 years old, I am no longer a minor, and that qualifies me to go into an adult dating. Am sure it is more exciting than those less serious dates I had experienced.

I had a boyfriend in our campus. He was tall, dark and handsome. He was one of the basketball players in our department, and a campus idol too. His cute dimples make him more good looking. On the other hand, I am pretty and brainy. I am one of the student leaders in our college. We are actually a good pair, as all of those who witness our relationship would say. Some envy us.

The thought of going out romantically on an adult dating gives shivers on my spine. The feeling of excitement is mixed with fear, fear of the unknown. That will be my first time to be so close with a guy all by myself. I kept all its details intricately in my mind. It was in the evening of October 20, 2006. He picked me up on my apartment. A single beep from his car already gives me the adrenalin rush. I quickly fixed myself on my velvet evening dress and slip on my matching black sandals. I do not put on much make up, light blush on and lipstick is enough for me. I did not keep him waiting outside the door. Immediately I went outside. Upon seeing me, he reached out for my hand. When I let him held my hand, I feel cold and nervous, but I love the feeling. It makes me realize that I am alive and normal. While on the care we did the casual talking. We dine first in one of the Italian restaurant in the downtown area, as I live uptown. The ambiance of the restaurant is romantic. The lighting of the chandeliers is slightly dim. The music is so soft and lovely, with a sweet aroma all over the place. We both love to eat their seafood ala carte. After diner, we decided to watch a movie in the park. It was a romantic comedy story entitled Wristcutters: A Love Story. The theme of the movie includes adult dating. As the story develops romantically, I felt a tickle at the back of my neck. It was his finger forming small circles in my nape. The feeling is crazy; it was fascinating! That night was truly magical for me. I don’t regret any moment of it.

From then on, all of my experiences with adult dating were good. I am so thankful that both my past and present boyfriends are all so good to me. They are gentleman and very respectful.